A learning experience for all of us...

August 5th 2017 I was induced about 3 days early due to my baby being large and me not being able to go past my due date because I had been diagnosed with Gestational Diabetes.  While pregnant I researched everything I could find about labor and delivery.  I had no birth plan minus I wanted my husband in the room and I didn't want an epidural.  I felt prepared for labor, but realized after that all the research in the world didn't prepare me for my OWN experience.

The only part of my "plan" was I went into labor on a Saturday, because I was induced, I then had a 26.5 hour labor.  Yes i know other women had gone longer, but due to the placement of my baby's umbilical cord, I had an emergency C-section when I went, "IM DONE" after they couldn't keep his heart rate steady and I wasn't 10 centimetes,  I was barely 7.  He wasn't going to fit, even though the poor little guy did try to come out naturally, so I had to have a c-section, and I had to be knocked out because I wasn't allowed an epidural.

The 10 Things I learned during my first baby labor experience.

1. Induction = Bed Rest
They tell you when you go into labor that they want you up and walking and moving.  THIS does not apply when you are induced.  They actually get kind of annoyed if you want to get up and move around away from the monitor depending on your nurse because they have to unplug you each time.  We had one nurse who was like, "yea just page me when you get done and I'll hook you back up" and another who was NOT happy each time I had to pee... So try that natural induction stuff at home to get labor going because if they induce you, you're pretty much stuck to the bed...

2. The Water Breaking GUSH
They aren't joking about that GUSH of water when your water breaks.  Mine was broken by my midwife and it just kept coming, and apparently it smelled really bad.  My husband informed me of this recently.  I was too busy with labor pains to notice the smell.  My husband has a very sensitive nose though so I'm not surprised he smelled it.
3. Internal Monitors
If they have difficulty finding your baby's heart beat with an EXTERNAL monitor, they will give you an internal one.  Be very careful with this, it is attached to your baby.  They drape it around your neck when your go to the bathroom, and my husband would help me in the bathroom each time I went so I wasn't tugging on anything.  He also accompanied me to make sure I didn't trip or anything.
4. Talk to your specialty Doctors, not just the pregnancy ones
 If you want an epidural, you should probably talk to the anesthesia team BEFORE you go into labor, especially if you bruise easily and are short, and get things in writing from your OWN doctors too.  I decided at 3 in the morning to get an epidural after our nurse (who wasn't our favorite person...) kept telling me "the pain will lessen in you get an epidural" and "you'll stop thrashing around in bed if you have an epidural".  She called the Anesthesia team, got me all hooked up and turns out I COULDN'T have one.  I have Ehlers Danlos and bruise easily.  At 4:30 in the morning I was informed by the Anesthesiologist that I had a high probability of being paralyzed if she gave me an epidural due to my EDS and how short I am, which my genetisist had told me wouldnt happen, but they refused to give me one.
5. Ask about pain management and drugs, Even if you don't want them
DISCUSS IT with your midwife or doctor beforehand.  I had not wanted drugs and I didn't know my options besides an Epidural, and was dead set on I didn't want anything.  I was given an IV med to start, and when I couldn't have the epidural, my midwife called the doctor she is associated with and was given Morphine so that I could sleep because I was having contractions every 2 minutes but wasn't dilating any further.  Also, the Demi (I forget the full name) doens't work as well the SECOND time they give it to you, thus why I had morphine..
6. TEAM WORK!
If your baby is in distress, EVERYONE gets on board.  My baby's heart rate started dropping because his umbilical cord was going from his belly button up over his one shoulder and down the other.  While he was trying to get out of me and I would have a contraction, it would put pressure on his cord and he wouldn't get an oxygen.  No joke, 4 people rushed in my room, and my husband noticed it before they were in the room yelling for me to get on my hands and knees and shoving an oxygen mask in my face because he was watching the monitor, even though they told us not to... My midwife in the morning turned it for us saying, "I know you like to watch it"
7.  Things go quick
An emergency c-section is the quickest surgery I have ever experienced.   Due to my inability to have an Epidural, I had to be unconscious for my cesarean, and my poor husband who had wanted to cut the cord and was excited to do skin to skin while I was recovering, wasn't even allowed in the room because I was unconscious.  SO, no cord cutting, no skin to skin.  BUT he got to watch his first bath, and hold him before me.  My husband claims it felt like 15 minutes from the moment they took me to the moment the doctor said, "you have a son!".  I could have sworn it was a half hour... but that may be from the moment they all came running in to his birth time.
8. If your mother wants to be there, let her be there.
 My mom asked constantly, "do you want me to come over?" and we were like, "everything is fine, you'd just be sitting here..." and about 20 minutes before I went in for my cesarean, she texts me again, and I said the same thing.  Looking back, I wish I had said, "sure, come on over and hang out with us, given hubs a break from rubbing my back" because she would have been there by the time everything happend and hubs wouldn't have been alone when I went into surgery.  Everything went so quick, that if the rolls were switched, I wouldn't have known what was going on if I was him... thus I yelled to the nurse to explain it again to him.
9. Stay calm, and breathe
 Lots of people try to tell you alot of information at the same time.  Try to stay calm because you won't hear any of it.  I literally told my midwife, "I don't care what the risks are, lets just get him out", as she tried telling me what was going on half way through me having another contraction and trying to keep an oxygen mask on my face.
10. You need that birth partner
Finally, you don't realize how much you need your spouse, or birthing partner until you are in it.  I could not have gone through that alone, and my husband really pushed through it.  He doesn't function well on little sleep, and by the time we had the baby, we had that contraction relief down to a science.  He'd hear me groan, and immediately sit up and start rubbing my back.

They tell you that you forget the pain when its all over.  Frankly I am not forgetting ANY of that first birth experience, but I did learn alot from it.  Especially the hour and a half wait to find out I couldn't have an epidural, my new found hatred for pitocin, and a new found love for pain killers in a pinch.  That said, it was all completely worth it for my little handsome guy

Each park has its perks....

So now to tips and comparisons of my awesome trip to Florida with Hubs.

1. Disney's water park was MUCH MUCH better than the one Universal Associates with.  WetnWild was a nice park, the people were friendly, but if you can manage it, go to Typhoon Lagoon.  The wave pool was amazing.  Hubs lost his hat in the water, and atleast 4 people tried to help us find it.  There was basically more personable people at Disney, and the "magic" was there.

2. Universal's park hopper was much cooler!  Hogwarts express to go between parks was AWESOME.  Disney has its bus system, because theres so many parks and so many hotels, and they're spread out, I get that.  But every time we wanted to go to a new park, we had to leave the park, walk to the busses, or wait for the Monorail, and you still had to walk like 10 minutes just to get to the bus, then if there were alot of people going back to their hotels or to a new park, you either didn't get a seat or you were waiting for the next one.  It was just nuts...

3. The magic.   I only had ONE person be annoyed about something at Disney, and seem slightly frustrated with their job.  Every single solitary person we encountered at Disney was extremely kind and into the fact that they were supposed to be the happiest people, and act like freaking cartoon characters.  Universal had a couple people who were really into their job, but most of them were like, "raise your arms for the bar.... please don't step out of line" monotone voice.  Disney people were like, 'HEY! you should be smiling!!!"  it was crazy.

4. Rides.  Universal's rides were NUTS.  We got on the Dr. Doom ride first second in on Wednesday and OMG it was AWESOME.  But then we got on the Simpson ride and frankly they could do without that stupid thing.  We waited in line for EVER and it was basically a short ride with alot of videos... it was the Line Ride from South Park...   HOWEVER it made up for it with stuff like Escape from Gringotts, and Jurassic Park, the Mummy, Popeye, etc.  Their rides were GREAT and the ones they had that were "meh" were still good.   As previously stated, they have MANY a ride with videos... I get motion sick easily when I have to focus on one thing, so videos and the whipping around motion of the coasters made me sick to the point I could not bring myself to get on spiderman again.
Disney had some good rides, and you had to wait a long time to get on them.  Their GREAT rides were awesome, but their "meh" rides were still "meh..."  The Space Invaders Toy Story ride actually broke down while we were on it, which was really weird.  My sister and her family were with us for that one and I could hear my nephew going "what happened?"

5. Food!!  We had the Disney dining plan which I HIGHLY ENCOURAGE if you enjoy trying new foods.  You still have to tip everyone, BUT you don't have to worry about the huge bill cost.  We got breakfast each morning, and a snack around lunch, then we had a big sit down dinner each night but Friday, where we had Wawa Hoagies which was AWESOME.  I love a little taste of home.  We didn't really eat in Universal so theres no contest here on that one.  I just wanted to encourage the Dining plan because it really worked well for us.  I had not done it when I was there with my friends back in 2006, and I preferred it this time.  We also plan on going back to the Biergarten next time too.  Hubs and me are both German and enjoy German foods and OMG WAS IT DELICIOUS.  You have to sit with other people, but still, its a buffet so its not family style, but it is...?


Complaints:
Don't stay at the lower cost hotels at Disney is you don't have to.  My husband and I were really annoyed that they hadn't changed the sheets more than once when we were.  We noticed because one of us had gotten something on the sheets, and stained it slightly, and it was still there 3 days later...  We also had an empty bag of chips under the bed at the end of the trip that was not placed there by either of us...
Finally on the first day we were there, house keeping knocked on our door super early and asked if we'd be wanting house keeping, when I said, "not right now... " seeing as it was 8am... she gave me an attitude and told me I need to use the "do not disturb" sign.  I'm sorry I was not expecting house keeping at 8am seeing as my hotel room wasn't even ready until 6pm the night before... and was supposed to be ready at 3pm....
Universals employees could use some pep in their step... a good portion of them were very blah about work.  I get it, its a job, but atleast PRETEND you enjoy working there like some of your coworkers... like the 5 we encountered....

Tips!!!

• Use the Disney Dining plan.  100%, I loved it.  We got a cup, we used them every day, it was great.
• Do the Disney park hopper and water park option.  We wished we had paid for that instead of WetnWild because we paid extra when we got there for Typhoon Lagoon (it was a mix up on my part...) and we loved Typhoon lagoon SO MUCH MORE.
• Stay at one of the pricier Disney hotels if you can.  We weren't thrilled in the end with PopCentury's employees.  
• Stay at the Disney hotels if you're going to Disney.  We watched people trying to park each day and it was NUTS.  You stay at the parks and you get transportation to every park, and you can go for "magic hours" they're special times they're open early or late for only their guests.
• Check your Disney Transportation and that they'll get your bags.  Somewhere their was a mix up with ours and we had to real quick get everything sorted before getting on the bus because somehow we weren't on the list for that... still had transportation, just they weren't getting our bags until we changed it AT the airport.
• Eat at Biergarten.  It was DELICIOUS.  And do atleast one disney character experience
• Check 6 months before your trip for doing Reservations of stuff.  I checked what I thought was advanced and I was a month late so it was harder for us to get the stuff we wanted, like Dinner at Be Our Guest.  Though we had breakfast and Lunch there so it worked out

All in all, Hubs and I agreed, Universal's rides were AMAZING and we loved them, BUT it lacked the magic that was going on at Disney.  Disney's ride were okay, but it was truly Magical being there.  The atmosphere was just amazing, and it was great seeing Disney and the "magic" from my nephews reactions.

"Dreams come true!"

Hi Everyone!  I am back and mainly unpacked (its been a week I should be 100% unpacked but whatever...) from my lovely vacation with the hubs to Florida.  I miss Florida already, but we are back in PA and happy, cold, slightly sick, and stuffed with turkey because it was Thanksgiving about 2 days ago.

So I have lots to update on, lets start!

Disney!  So much fun.  We stayed at Disney and rented a car to go to Universal three days.  I'm making the trip a two part post, first Disney, then Universal and conclusion.  Sound good?  OKAY! Lets go!

As previously stated, Hubs and I stayed at Pop Century on the Disney property and rented a car for going to Universal.  People consistently were saying "save money, stay off ground, etc" but frankly, after you factor in parking and gas, etc, it was worth it, for hubs and me to stay at Disney.  Disney has their own transportation system that will transport you to and from the parks if you are staying at their resort.  Also if you know someone staying at another Disney resort, you can get a bus to one of the parks, then a bus from the park to that hotel and meet up with family or friends staying there, or take the monorail, which we did ride at one point... You can also use this to go to breakfast, lunch, dinner, whatever at the other resorts.

Magic Bands: Your magic bands have your name on them, and then are your ticket to the park, your key for your room, your connection for charging things to your room, and your dining plan swiper.  I think Disney has some bugs to work out still, because I had an issue with my band a few times, and so did multiple other people I saw and talked to.  Bands not working at their room, not matching with your finger print at the park gate, sometimes just not working.  They finally had to take my picture because I could not get  it to work at the parks for a fourth time on one of our last days.

You basically wear the band, and scan your finger so that they know it isn't being used by other people.  Simple enough, but slight pain when one keeps glitching.  You also have the option in the parks to purchase MORE magic bands, with fun stuff on them.  I stuck with my orange one.

Now you have the basics, lets move on, taking this one day at a time….Sorry.  I’ll try to be brief, but no promises.

Saturday: EARLY EARLY EARLY!

My mother in law drove us to the airport at 4:30 in the morning…. no joke.  I was exhausted.  We apparently love to torture ourselves because Hubs and I did the same thing for Jamaica, like 4 hours of sleep then a day of awesome!  Got to Disney around lunch time, had lunch at Pop Century, got our cups (dining plan gives you cups) then off to Magic Kingdom we went!  It was the first time my husband had been to any of the Disney parks, as he had only ever been to Universal a long time ago... PEOPLE if you ever get the chance to take someone to Magic Kingdom for their first time, DO IT.  He was amazed because we got there in the middle of one of their parades and Oh my gosh, Hubs could not stop staring at everything.  He said to me atleast three times "What is this place?" lol.  It was pretty awesome, I'm not going to lie.

We got to meet Gaston, get on the tea cups, we only did like 3 rides at Magic Kingdom Saturday because there was an insane amount of people there.  So we left and went to Epcot because we had dinner reservations at Biergarten which was AMAZING.  Omg, best food.  My husband and I are both German descent and have a small love of German food.  Its in Oktoberfest, and its a buffet.  If you want like drinks and an appetizer, go to Summerfest because thats not a buffet and we met a couple who made that mistake.  Tried to be a beer crawl of Epcot, and went to Biergarten as a short stop… no.  You don’t do that.

Best like everything I have ever eaten, dessert was amazing, vegetables were amazing, sauerkraut was amazing, just omg.  The family we sat with were great too, very nice people from near where Hubs and I live now so.

Our room wasn’t ready until like WELL after 3pm (I’m pretty sure it wasn’t ready till 6 o clock… I may be wrong but I’m going to check it)

Sunday: We got super lucky and got Lunch Reservations at Be Our Guest.  Apparently dinner is much harder to come by, but frankly we just wanted to go in there…  Again, Food was amazing.  When you do breakfast and lunch you go through a line and order at a touch screen, then you pick a seat, and MAGICALLY your food finds you.  I asked how they find you and the girl looked at me so just done and goes “…Magic…”   Okay lady, good enough for me…  I got a roast beef sandwich, that came with fries, AND a cupcake with “Grey Stuff” on it.  It was icing, lol.  It was good.  

Got on some rides, got to ride Dumbo, because frankly everyone should go on the Dumbo ride at least once.  Because of the long lines we didn’t get on many rides at Magic Kingdom.  We did get on the Splash Mountain ride, which was great because Hubs loves log flumes, and it was HOT!!  Again, went to Epcot after magic kingdom, BUT! We ate the Akershus which was awesome too.  This was character dining, where the Princesses come around and take pictures and say hi.  Ariel was fascinated by my shirt because it had “bubbles” on it, and asked if I had been swimming.  It was a polka dot shirt lol.  Again food was amazing.  Missed the fire works for Epcot because we were in dinner, but we caught them Monday.

Christmas Tea Pot!

Monday: Typhoon Lagoon.  Kudos Disney for your wave pool.  Those waves came and people SCREAMED.  It was great.  Water slides were good.  I am not a fan of slides where I have to go down without a tube because my shoulder blades always hurt afterwards, don’t know why but they do.  This day we got to meet up with my sister and her family after we had finished at the water park.  So we left a bit before closing, went back got showers, and met up with my sister after dinner for fire works.  We ate at the coral reef which was SO COOL.  Everyone has a view of the fish tank which is awesome.  They give you a list of what all the fish are too so you can see as they come past the glass.  Also they had this black sea salt on their butter with the bread, OMG So delicious.  I’m a salt person, who I lost my mind over this one food lol.  

Fire works with my sisters family was great.  My husband had my nephew on his shoulders so he could see better, and apparently the Monorail was in the way because he insisted my husband move closer.

Tuesday: Magic Kingdom again, but this time with my sisters family. We got lucky and SOMEHOW got to eat at Be Our Guest AGAIN but for breakfast this time.  Hubs was like, “lets try it” and no joke, we were in and out in half the time as lunch on Sunday.  Met up with my sister after breakfast and frankly we really got in more rides with them than we did on our own which we didn’t expect.  My sister would go, “this fast pass” and i’d switch us to it and then we’d head over because on Tuesday this was less people and most of the rides we could take her kids on, had like NO waits.  It was good.  My nephew likes the Aladdin magic carpet ride, which is basically Dumbo, but with carpets and camels that spit at you, lol.

DOLE WHIP   Hubs insisted he have pineapple dole whip.

We went to Hollywood Studios after Magic Kingdom, and I insisted Hubs ride Tower of Terror.  I love it, its my favorite.  We tried to get fast passes for different stuff but basically ended up canceling some of them and using them for Epcot later.  We also got on rocking roller coaster and walked around just getting on different stuff.  We did NOT ride Soarin’ as there was an hour and a half wait basically every day we checked it.

Dinner was at Epcot again… I KNOW I KNOW but it was so good.  This time at Tokyo Dining which was again AMAZING.  I was not disappointed at any meal in Disney.  We got cloths before the meal to wipe our hands and we got to eat with chopsticks, which we love.  They were very nice too.

We didn’t go to Disney again until Saturday when we left, and this post is long enough already!!!  See part 2 for Universal, last day in Disney, and tips and such.  

Happy Living!!

taxikab

ps.  Happy belated Thanksgiving!